Marilyn urges people to support St Giles Hospice raffle in memory of her beloved Husband
10th June 2019
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The family of a Staffordshire vicar, who visited many patients at St Giles before needing care at the hospice himself, is calling on people to back its summer fundraising raffle. Marilyn Bailey, whose husband Richard was the local vicar for St John’s Church in Shenstone and St Peter’s Church in Stonnall, believes that supporting events like the raffle ensures that St GilesHospice can be there for people like Richard and his family when needed.

Richard was a regular visitor to St Giles for a number of years, going to see members of his church who were patients at the hospice. When he was diagnosed with cancer he and his family knew how much support the hospice could provide, Marilyn said.

Richard had extensive treatment before the family was told by the hospital that he would be referred to St Giles for their support. “We were introduced to one of the St Giles doctors and a community nurse who were both so knowledgeable and so willing to help,” she added.

“The hospice team were there for the whole family, including our pets, and that was really important to us. Our little dog Hollie was a regular visitor on the ward to see Richard.

The reception staff even had dog treats especially for her.” Richard went into the hospice for three weeks for support, and to manage his symptoms, which allowed him to return home for a while before his condition worsened. When he returned to St Giles for the final time Marilyn noticed immediately that each room was named after a local village - and his room was called Shenstone.

Marilyn added: “It was almost as if this was meant to be, when I saw the name on the door and it echoed the fact that Richard felt so safe and secure when he was at the hospice. The building is lovely and welcoming and the grounds are beautifully kept and so peaceful, but it’s the people that make the difference. “The team at St Giles were open and honest with us as a family and that was very important to us.This not only helped him, but all of us. We all really appreciated such dedicated people there who took the time to have the conversations to really make sure we knew what was happening.

“When Richard died the whole family was there, along with our three dogs. We formed an escort, humans and dogs alike, to walk down the corridor to say goodbye. That was a moment I’ll treasure and remember and it couldn’t have happened anywhere else.”
It costs more than £9 million to provide the care St Giles offers every year and the hospice believes that there are another 1,000 people locally who could benefit from its specialist care if funds were available.

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