But it doesn't have to be that way?
You can break the cycle, and there is more help than you can ever imagine to resolving the problem. Go talk to someone (us if you like)- there is plenty of support around (some good, some bad, but you got to start somewhere)- find people who have been through what you have been through and come out the other side- you'll be surprised how many people will tell you their story. But don't go and drain more of your depleted personal resources unless you know how you are going to get it back- it is the road to ruin
